How To Use A Dildo

When your first sex toy finally arrives and you open the box apart from excitement you might ask yourself `How do I use this thing?` – do not feel desperate as most beginners have the same problem.  Best dildos are manufactured and delivered every day but without user manuals telling you what to do.  The most popular sex toys on the market,  dildos can really change the way you think about sex but first of all,  you must choose the right one.  With so many available designs this can be hard so there are some basic rules to follow when buying a new dildo.

Choose The Right Size And Shape

The best way to choose a dildo would be to go to a sex shop where you can touch them and hold in your hand so you have a more realistic view of your favorite dildo.  If you buy online,  then first compare it to your partner`s penis by measuring the length and width to see how big a dildo you want.  If you are single or want a dildo different to what you are used to,  measure your genitals by either your fingers or using some items such as cucumbers for example to make sure what size dildo is the best for you.  Be careful when it comes to shapes, too because you need a sex toy that you can use to spice up your sexual intercourse not something to put on the shelf.  Some of the dildos are said to be much bigger when you get them than what they looked like in the photos.   Always choose according to your needs as dildos for vaginal penetration can differ from those for anal sex.

Use Dildos Wisely

How To Use A Dildo

If you are a beginner with dildos,  make sure you are patient enough and have lots of lube.  Then before inserting it play with it for some time to get aroused as this will bring more blood to your genitals making penetration easier.  Dildos do what you tell them to do so you can either enjoy or get hurt.  When you are ready you should just insert the tip and continue playing,  massaging your vaginal opening or clitoris then insert some more.  If the dildo is a long and large one be extra careful with it.  If you do not know your limits you might hurt your cervix which is very painful.   Do not forget to always apply lubricant and if you want to play it safely use a condom on your dildo. Most people prefer water based lubes with their sex toys while you should not apply silicone lube on silicone toys as they can disintegrate.   For anal penetration same rules apply,  breathe deeply and relax your muscles only inserting dildos safe for anal use and plenty of lubricant.  Do not push too hard or you might get hurt and always ask your partner for help.  Make sure that you are aroused and try inserting it from different angles,  experiment by going slowly then stop,  breathe and go again changing the pace and rhythm.  Use a dildo with your partner,  share one double ended dildo or use it for penetrating each other,  mimic oral sex or use strapons to change roles and massage the prostate gland or G-spots for stronger orgasms.

Clean Your Dildos

You can clean them with soap and hot water or boil them if made of silicone.  If you use a condom every time then clean the dildo afterwards and make sure you do not use the same dildo for vaginal and anal penetration without cleaning it in between the two uses.  After you have cleaned them with soap,  rinse properly and put in a clean,  dry place.  If you notice any damages on the dildo do not use it as this may cause irritation and infections.